Some Common Indian Customs & Traditions
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"When you judge my religion you take it that yours is perfect and mine wrong; and when you criticise the society of India you suppose it to be uncultured just so far as it does not conform to your
standard. That is nonsense."
(Boston Herald, May 15, 1894, reporting a lecture by
Swami Vivekananda)
- It still applies today.
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India is a land of often bewildering diversity. It is a jigsaw puzzle of
people of every faith and religion, living together to create a unique
and colourful mosaic. Different parts of India follow different customs.
Generally the big cities are more liberal and cosmopolitan. But as one
travels inward one comes across customs preserved through history. The
philosophy of life is very different from that of the West. Indians are
hospitable people. Here are a few tips for day-to-day life:
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Aarti is performed as an act of veneration and love. It is often
performed as a mark of worship and to seek blessings from God, to
welcome the guests, for children on their birthdays, family members
on auspicious occasions or to welcome a newly wedded couple.
The purpose of performing aarti is to ward off evil effects and malefic
influence of the evil eye. For performing aarti, five small lamps
called Niranjanas are filled with oil or clarified butter (ghee)
and arranged in a small metallic tray. A cotton wool wick is placed
in the lamps. A conch-shell filled with water, auspicious leaves or
flowers, incense or lighted camphor are also placed on the tray.
The lamps are lit and the tray is rotated in a circular motion in front
of the deity or the person to be welcomed.
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A bindi is an auspicious mark worn by young girls and women. It is
usually a red dot made with Vermillion powder which is worn
by the women between their eyebrows on their forehead.
Traditionally a symbol of marriage, it has become decorative and is
worn today by unmarried girls and women as well.
No longer restricted to colour or shape, bindis are seen in many bright
colours and in different shapes and designs. They are also made of
coloured felt and embellished with coloured glass or glitter.
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Fixed Price
Today cash.
Tomorrow on Credit. |
Fixed price is charged in recognised shops, government emporiums and
department stores. In all other places especially in bazaars, rickshaws
and taxis, bargain for a lesser price. It is a fairly common practice.
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In India women are expected to dress modestly.
Short skirts and tight or revealing clothes should not be worn, even on
beaches, unless it is meant for swimming.
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Business people are not expected to dress formally
except for meetings and social functions.
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In India it is usual to eat with the hand. It is essential that only the
right hand is used for eating. The left hand is considered
"not clean". It is no offence to ask for
fork and spoon. Knives are generally not used.
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In some families it is customary to remove the shoes before
entering a house. Because of strict religious and social customs
visitors must show particular respect when visiting someone's
home.
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All visitors are asked to remove footwear when entering
places of religious worship. Gurudwaras (Sikh temples) will also require the
visitor to cover the head. Dress properly to visit the places of
worship be it a temple, gurudwara or a mosque. Avoid using shorts
and sleeveless tops.
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Flower garlands are generally offered as a mark of respect and honour.
They are offered to welcome the visitors or in honour to the Gods and
Goddesses. The garlands are generally made with white jasmine and
orange marigold flowers. They are weaved in thread tied in the end
with a knot.
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In India cow is worshipped by some section of the people and beef is not
a common item of the menu. Many Hindus are vegetarian. In South India
vegetarian dishes are served more often than non-vegetarian dishes.
Most Indians don’t drink alcohol and it is not an item at the dinner
table. But it is served in some families in the cities and
big towns. Generally women don’t drink alcohol.
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